July 31, 2008
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So how?
How do you tell a person he/she’s doing wrong, when you know he/she won’t listen? And you know people are afraid to speak up to them cause they’d be arguments which will damage the friendship. But the problem is still unquestionably there. How do you control pride (on both sides)? Loosing will only bring you back to.. well.. no point even starting the argument. So, how?
Comments (5)
i think if “my friend” is very close to me and if we used to share everything in our life.
I will just whack whatever is in my mind and get a clearer view.
Keep quiet only will lead to more misunderstandings.
shoot! forget about your tent!
yea true. but there’s often times we need to be quiet and see how things go first, cause we might be wrong too.
But in my current case, we’re passed the confirmation stage. lol.
Also wondering how to “tell people off” in a “Christian context”. Hmm.
I think if that person is really a good friend of yours, telling the truth will not damage the friendship if he/she treat u a close friend also. Afterall, being honest is the most important thing in friendship, and argument itself will not damage the friendship, it is how you deal with your emotion after the argument might affect the friendship. and sometime quarrel will improve the relationship.
yea true. but i think it either strengthens the relationship or terminates it. lol. It only gets stronger if a solution is found.
haha..dun be so negative la….i am sure there would be a solution for it….let me know if i can be any help la